Do you think it is more important to WIN or want to win? Evidently it is more agreeable for your wellness to want to win a competition like a golf tournament than it is to have to win or your life will become somehow MUCH less than it is now. The guy or gal who gets the Bronze medal at the Olympics is somehow missing the point IF in doing so and not getting the GOLD medal in any way takes away from their years of preparation and execution that day. That is why they Call it the Olympic Games! BTW, golf is returning to the Olympics! If Rory McIlroy or Jordan Spith don’t get a gold medal, for instance, are they any less the consummate golfers?